Week 2 Friday Meeting (January 15)

To: ALL     Edited: Jan-15 03:03 PM (1 of 139)
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Welcome to week 2 of the New Year’s Challenge! This week we’re going to ask you to reflect on the goals you set forth for yourself this year. Approximately 90 percent of Americans make at least one New Year's resolution, and it’s no surprise that the majority choose weight-loss as their number one goal? This is also the time of year when you may notice all the articles and TV segments about quick ways to lose weight. And while those gimmicky promotions may sound appealing, fad diets aren’t the way to go. When it comes to permanent weight loss and long-term health, slow and steady wins the race. Learn more about why quick fix diets fail.

As you begin your journey of losing weight and leading a healthy lifestyle, it’s important to identify what your goals are and to make sure they are realistic. For starters, don’t stress over losing pounds, and instead focus on following the Meal Plans carefully, breaking unhealthy habits, and incorporating more exercise into your routine. Before you know it, you have already dropped a dress size! Share your goals with us and tell us how you plan to obtain them.

Today Lynn Grieger, registered dietician, is going to discuss how to set obtainable goals — and how to stick with them for good! Lynn has 20 years of experience in the fields of nutrition, wellness, and health. Lynn has an undergraduate degree from the University of Vermont, spent four years as an officer in the US Army, and then went back to school at Valparaiso University in Indiana to become a registered dietitian. She’s also a certified diabetes educator with additional training and expertise working with people with type 1, type 2, or gestational diabetes, as well as a certified personal trainer through the American College of Sports Medicine. Lynn also completed coaching training through Well Coaches and is a frequent freelance author for several print and online magazines.

So, let's get started!  See you right here at 3:00 p.m. (eastern)

Linda
To: ALL     Posted: Jan-15 02:50 PM (2 of 139)
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Thanks, Linda! It's great to be here during week two of the New Year's Challenge!

Abraham Lincoln said that "a goal properly set is halfway reached," and I completely agree. Without specific, action-oriented goals, we're like a boat without a rudder. Everyone here today shares one goal: to lose weight and keep it off. Let's look beyond that broad goal, and set realistic, obtainable, action-oriented goals that will guide us through each day and each week. When you set goals, keep the word "smart" in mind:

Specific

Measurable

Action-based behavior

Realistic

Timeframe

Instead of setting a goal to eat better, set a smart goal that gives you a specific, measurable road map for how you plan to improve your eating habits for the coming week. Instead of setting a goal to lose a specific amount of weight in the next month, set smart goals that focus on the action-oriented behaviors that will lead to weight loss, such as:

* following the SBD meal plan

* paying attention to the amount of foods you eat

* making sure you walk for 30 minutes a certain number of times each week.

Use a three-step process to truly benefit from goal setting: set smart goals, review your progress on your goals weekly, and build on that progress to set new smart goals. Le's use our time together to talk about the action goals you plan on putting into your life with the SBD program. Post any questions you have for me by replying to this or any of my posts. I'll do my best to answer any questions that are addressed to me that are posted by 4pm!

From: BeachVan
To: ALL     Posted: Jan-15 02:53 PM (3 of 139)
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Don't forget to weigh in if you haven't already done so!

http://www.southbeachdiet.com/forums/south-beach-diet-community-challenges/topic/week-2-weigh-in-here-jan-11-jan-17#anchor-22

Also.... if you refresh your browser frequently throughout the chat it will enable to you see the new messages.

 
From: patina
To: BeachVan     Posted: Jan-15 02:57 PM (4 of 139)
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okay i am here 
 
From: BeachVan
To: patina     Posted: Jan-15 02:58 PM (5 of 139)
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Welcome, Patina!  Love the new picture!

 
From: patina
To: ALL     Posted: Jan-15 03:00 PM (6 of 139)
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I have found that i must set day to day goals lately, I get more sucess that way
I HAVE LONG TERM GOALS BUT MY SHORT ONE ARE DONE DAILY AND WEEKLY
 
 
From: NH_Gal
To: patina     Posted: Jan-15 03:00 PM (7 of 139)
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I was determined to make it here this week too.  Linda, sounds like that is what we do in education-- attainable goals and one we can measure.  I measure my walking-- ghave kept track for months  weekly.  I think I need to do the same with my food.  WRITE it down and measure it
To: Dietitian_Lynn     Posted: Jan-15 03:01 PM (8 of 139)
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Hi Lynn, Linda,
Looking back at the first of the year my goals were.......
Walk 5 days a week
Take 4-wheel bike out on the trails once a week
Track
Plan menu the evening before
From: patina
To: ALL     Posted: Jan-15 03:01 PM (9 of 139)
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THANKS  HOPE IT CAN COUNT FOR THE CHALLENEGE
 
To: BeachVan     Posted: Jan-15 03:02 PM (10 of 139)
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Hi, Jess here....just want to make sure I am on the right board?
Thanks!
From: Carolyn
To: BeachVan     Posted: Jan-15 03:03 PM (11 of 139)
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Hello Linda
I am really trying to join the meeting but every time I go to the messages page, it changes and I can't seem to get where I need to be.
From: BeachVan
To: Dietitian_Lynn     Posted: Jan-15 03:03 PM (12 of 139)
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One of the hardest things for me was the concept of "action-oriented" goals versus "outcome oriented" goals.

Once I shifted from "My goal is to lose 10 pounds a month" to "My goal is to follow the SBD faithfully and to exercise at least 30 minutes a day", I was able to stop the emotional roller-coaster I was on when I did not lose the 10 pounds in a month.  Not because I wasn't being faithful to the program, but because it wasn't within my control how much weight came off.

Linda
 
From: BeachVan
To: Carolyn     Posted: Jan-15 03:04 PM (13 of 139)
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You are here, Carolyn!  Welcome!

 
From: patina
To: NH_Gal     Posted: Jan-15 03:04 PM (14 of 139)
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ONE WAY I HAVE FOUND HELPS ME MEASURING  WAS TO BUY SEVERAL SETS OF MEASURING SPOONS AND KEEP THEM WHERE I COOK AND EAT, I EVEN HAVE ONE IN MY PURSE FOR WHEN I AM OUT,IT IS TO EASY TO SLIP UP WITH OILS AND STUFF
 
From: NH_Gal
To: Daisy7818     Posted: Jan-15 03:05 PM (15 of 139)
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Lynn would it be a good idea (or Linda) would it be a good idea to track what we eat for say a week-- if so I have resisted that-- but think it might be worth a try.  I have also added aerobic and yog as well as weightas to my exercis.  True will they add muscle which weighs more?????
To: dixieredhat     Posted: Jan-15 03:05 PM (16 of 139)
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dixieredhat wrote: "Looking back at the first of the year my goals were....... / Walk 5 days a week / Take 4-wheel bike out on the trails once a week / Track / Plan menu the evening before."

Those are good, specific goals that cover a variety of areas. Now, let's look at how you're doing progresing with these goals.
From: Zebra_2
To: BeachVan     Posted: Jan-15 03:07 PM (17 of 139)
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Lynn -
When we have action based behaviors that we are not able to constantly achive, what is your suggestion for re-working those behaviors. Is that the time we need to sit down and try to figure out why we are getting in our own way.
 
Simple example: action - follow SB Phase II - keep eating too many starches and end up inadvertantly on P3 ! LOL !
L
From: BeachVan
To: NH_Gal     Posted: Jan-15 03:07 PM (18 of 139)
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Yes, I agree!  It's just about the same thing.  They use them in business too.  It makes sense to make those short - term (time bound) specific (I think the more specific the better), action oriented (versus outcome oriented), realistic (this one is the hard one for me sometimes).

I love the concept, and I think it can really be helpful -- particularly when the whole weight loss thing seems so overwhelming.  Taking it one step at a time.  
 
To: BeachVan     Posted: Jan-15 03:07 PM (19 of 139)
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BeachVan wrote: "One of the hardest things for me was the concept of "action-oriented" goals versus "outcome oriented" goals. Once I shifted from "My goal is to lose 10 pounds a month" to "My goal is to follow the SBD faithfully and to exercise at least 30 minutes a day", I was able to stop the emotional roller-coaster I was on when I did not lose the 10 pounds in a month.  Not because I wasn't being faithful to the program, but because it wasn't within my control how much weight came off."

Congratulations for making that switch to setting action-oriented goals and taking charge of your behaviors! Looks like you've made a lot of progress in all areas!
To: BeachVan     Posted: Jan-15 03:07 PM (20 of 139)
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I had set 20lbs to lose during the challenger which is very doable for me since I have a large amount to lose.,  But now think I need to meet the other goals and the 20lbs will prob. follow.
If I can do those for 100 days, think how much of a habit it will be!!!
From: NH_Gal
To: dixieredhat     Posted: Jan-15 03:09 PM (21 of 139)
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I know you will do that Dixie-- once you make up your mind you seem to follow through


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